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Offline bird

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« on: April 03, 2016, 12:58:22 PM »
Hello to all, hope everyone is doing well! I found out last month that my dad, aka my whole world and best friend, has cancer. He flew to Boston this morning to have surgery on tuesday. Any happy vibes or prayers you could send this way would be much appreciated. He's a character! He has a car lift in the garage. He used to let stevie (my bro) and I balance our "big wheels" on either side of it and raise us up to what seemed like 50 ft in the air.... until mom came out... the game quickly ended at that point:) I used tto play the ever important role.... the most important role in the world... of being the sole person who could "bleed the breaks". In the basement dad had an old mark 9 jag. I'm not so sure he knew about this.... it had a skylight in it. Steve and I would get in, climb through the skylight, and slide down the winsheild. I asked him the other day if he knew about it. "Of course I did, why do you think the skylight was always left open??" But, perhaps the best, most thrilling thing were the words, " honey, I'm going to take the kids for a test drive."
"Don't you drive that care too fast with them!" The test drive was normally in the xke.... since you were basically sitting on the pavement, it felt like we were driving a million miles per hour. I'm not exactly a "conventional" daughter. After all, I am a 37... or is it 38? Year old female on this sight:)!! I'm a bit of an oddball, for many reasons which some persons know about and some dont. Dad says, "bird, you're one of a kind." Which, depending on the day, is either a good or bad thing:) He's always loved me for just the way i am. a more recent adventure was cleaning out the chimney. Dad always insists on doing that job himself. He's been doing it for as long as I've been alive, and has the misconception that he's gotten good at the job. So, he had the brilliant idea to tape up plastic around the wood stove,so as not to let the ashes go anywhere, which I would help to hold up while dad got on the roof to feed the brush through. As luck or lack thereof would have it, dad only put one screw back in the cap, which promptly fell off after he was on the roof. I screamed at him to stop.... not knowing whether to let go of the plastic to get to the cap or not. He didn't here me me, "what the hell happened?"
"I tried to yell at you. Mom's not coming home for another hour." We frantically began dusting soot off of pictures, mirrors, the TV , her desk.... I heard the awful sound of mom's car pulling in the driveway. Busted. Had dad been by himself, it would have been an awful situation, but , together, it was hilarious.  ... well, not to mom. I suppose that's a good testimony .... when something is bad or frustrating alone becomes somehow good when we're together, well, that's something special. Anyhow, that's more then anyone cares to know about my dad, I'm sure! So, that's a little bit about my dad
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Bird
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Offline Northwoods

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« Reply #1 on: April 03, 2016, 03:57:45 PM »
Sounds like he is the kind of dad a lot of girls should have--but don't
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Offline Twertsy

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« Reply #2 on: April 04, 2016, 08:36:00 AM »
Best wishes for you and your dad.

Offline Bill Houghton

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« Reply #3 on: April 04, 2016, 01:17:06 PM »
Bird,

I'll definitely be sending you, your dad, and all your family my best thoughts.

Bill


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« Reply #4 on: April 04, 2016, 05:48:34 PM »
Sorry about the rough news Bird. Hope everything goes as well as it can for your dad in Boston.
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Offline turnnut

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« Reply #5 on: April 04, 2016, 08:57:51 PM »
our thoughts are with you, they have very good doctors in Boston.

we have a very close friend that has been going to a clinic there for a few years, and the only
complaint was the driving distance.

he will be in good hands.

Offline J.A.F.E.

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« Reply #6 on: April 04, 2016, 09:36:09 PM »
I am very sad to hear this and you and your father have my best thoughts and wishes. Please keep us posted.
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« Reply #7 on: April 13, 2016, 01:39:19 PM »
Thank you to everyone for thoughts and prayers. We could use some more! Unfortunetaly, when dad got to boston in pre-op, they noticed a blood clot and couldn't do the surgery. So, home he flew. I called the other day for mom, dad said, "she went to bible study to pray for me."
"Seriously?"
"No, I don't know where she went."
"Well, moms got nothing on me, I've got my wrench group praying for you and sending happy thoughts your way."
dads turn, "seriously?"
"Yep, I got the right kind of people, our kind, praying for you and wishing you well :) !!!"
"Well, maybe they'll take pity on me and send a boatload of tools ! Tell them all thank you."
Now, we wait. There's a discrepancy in the lab work as to how agressive the cancer is. He's chosen now to have radiation. I think he has to have it every day for two or three months.... ughhh! He's going to go stir crazy! I told him there's never a shortage of projects out here, "You just get to spend more time with ME!
"Is that a threat, or a good thing?"
I'm glad he hasn't lost his sense of humor!
I've found life to be very taxing without it.
cheers
jenny bird

oh, someone needs to discover a new type of bird so we can name it the jennybird.... get to work on that..... go for a hike.
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Offline Nolatoolguy

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« Reply #8 on: April 17, 2016, 05:21:29 PM »
Jenny, he's been in my prayers. I am sad to hear it didn't go as planned but just know ime thinking of you your dad.

And I'm proud to be an American,
where at least I know I'm free.
And I won't forget the men who died,
who gave that right to me.
~Lee Greenwood